Saturday, June 28, 2014

Daenerys and Sexual Abuse as Punishment - Valley of the Moon Children's Home




Daenerys exhibited warning signs of ongoing sexual abuse. Instead of helping her by determining how she was being abused and by whom; staff employed sexual abuse in order to coerce her compliance. [1]

Daenerys, a seven year old girl, took off her clothes in front of a male staff member. A female supervisor came into the room and Daenerys rubbed her naked bottom on the supervisor's pant leg.

Staff restrained Daenerys. Staff member Robert Duffy writes in his written report of the incident, “Resident then started to rub her naked buttocks against R. Brunier’s pants leg. She was then placed in a two person transport by R Brunier and J. McDonald and removed to the separation room.” She was locked in the room for an extended period of time. The Separation Room is in a common area of the facility, and it has windows.

Supervisor Reyna Brunier’s written account of the incident adds, “Supervisor and DCS did not feel comfortable performing a containment on the resident while nude from the waist down.”

Staff considered two choices of punishment for Daenarys’ sexual abuse outcry; a physical restraint during which she would probably would be pinned to the ground or held by a staff member; or restrain her and drag her through a common area of the facility in order to lock her in a room with windows in a common area.

Daenerys was put on display in a sexually compromised condition as punishment for the staff’s perceived slight. Exhibiting Daenerys in such a sexually compromising position is sexual abuse.




[1] Daenerys is the name we gave to this child. Incident Report 5618-6768

Marian - A Story of Sexual Abuse at Valley of the Moon Children's Home




A frightening act of sexual abuse was used to coerce, punish and humiliate a child we named Marian.[1]

Marian tried to run away from Valley of the Moon Children’s Home on February 1, 2011. Two male staff members restrained her eight times to keep her in the facility, then they locked in a room as punishment. Marian finally submitted and stopped trying to escape. The two staff brought in a shirt and they demanded that she change her shirt while she was still in the locked room. They asserted that the shirt she was wearing was off dress code. The locked room has a window, and she was in the view of all staff and her foster sisters.

Forcing Marian to strip in front of them was an act of sexual exploitation and dominance which humiliated and shamed her while making her an example for children at Valley of the Moon Children’s Home.

Even though incident reports of restraints are required to be filed with Community Care Licensing within seven days, this incident report was withheld by Valley of the Moon Children’s Home staff for over two years. This incident report was one of a pack of incident reports withheld after a citation for locking children in rooms. 

This missing report only came to light when our advocates noticed a discrepancy in the number of restraints given to us by Family, Youth and Children’s Division head Nick Honey in 2013 and the number of incident reports we obtained in 2013. After we informed Community Care Licensing of the missing reports, they obtained them in July 2013.

As far as we know, the police were never contacted to report this act of sexual abuse, locking her in a room, or physical assault.

Marian was only seven years old at the time of her sexual exploitation. It might be tempting to think that because Marian was so young, she was less affected by nakedness in public. The courts have ruled that children, no matter their age, have an expectation of decency and to be free of such humiliation.

In Darryl H. v. Coler in 1986, a police officer examined the vaginal area of a two year old. The courts found the search illegal and a violation of the child’s rights. In addressing the case the judge said,

 “[a] child of very tender years may not exhibit a subjective expectation of privacy in the same sense as an older child. He is, however, a human being, entitled to be treated by the state in a manner compatible with that human dignity.” [3]

A child’s age does not create an excuse to violate the sanctity of the private areas of their body and to do so is a violation of their dignity. The first right in the Foster Youth Bill of Rights is a right to dignity. When the courts have found a behavior a violation of dignity, then it is axiomatic that such a behavior violates the right to a dignity as well as the right to be free of sexual abuse.  






[1] Incident Report 5742-6887

[3] 801 F.2d 893 (7th Cir. 1986)

Summary of Abuses at Valley of the Moon Children's Home





 Valley of the Moon Children's Home is a temporary shelter for kids who have been removed from their homes due to abusive family members. This shelter's existence has resulted in systematic abuse and wasteful spending because of failed oversight.
 

·         610 unjustifiable restraints in 5 years
·         41 Injuries resulting from restraints
      Denied bathroom and forced to soil themselves

·         Strip searches
·         Direct sexual abuse accusations
·         Pedophile confessions

·         Isolation from family and friends
·         Coercion
·         Retaliation
·         Insults and degradation

·         Mechanical locks
·         False imprisonment

·         Money and belongings taken

·         Onsite school is both illegal and unhelpful


·         Approved incomplete and abusive program statement
·         No or limited investigations of abuse complaints
·         Ignored abuse confessions
·         Failed to adequately review incident reports

Sonoma County and Valley of the Moon Children’s Home
·         At least 5 major revamps of practices
·         Abusive policies written by high level Sonoma County Department of Human Services members
·         Employees must become whistleblowers against their employer (Sonoma County), and their own interests, in order to report abuses against foster children.
¨        Many mandated reporters which foster children interact with are employed by the county.
¨        Children have limited access to outside mandated reporters.

 
The pervasive, system-wide problems at Valley of the Moon Children’s Home are not a matter of a few bad apples. No amount of reform can fix this shelter.  Reallocating resources to finding foster homes instead of funding Valley of the Moon Children’s Home would net better results at a much lower cost.

Valley of the Moon Children's Home Restraints 2009-2013


About Valley of the Moon Children’s Home







Valley of the Moon Children’s Home is an emergency shelter for children waiting for a foster care placement which is owned and run by The Sonoma County Department of Human Services. When a child is removed from an abusive home or a foster home placement fails, the child is taken to Valley of the Moon Children’s Home. It is supposed to be a place for children to safely wait while an appropriate long term home is found.

Children at Valley of the Moon Children’s Home are victims of abuse. They are children who have suffered neglect, sexual abuse, rape, emotional abuse, abandonment or physical abuse. Many of the children have experienced several types of abuse.

Valley of the Moon Children’s Home is forbidden under the terms of their license to accept any child who is a danger to themselves or anyone else.

Over the past 20 years, numerous reforms have been attempted at Valley of the Moon Children’s Home, including changing the name from the Dependency Unit to Valley of the Moon Children’s Home, requiring they get a license, investigations into treatment of children by non-profits, keeping small children out of the facility, and restructuring the daily program. None have worked.

Sonoma County has one of the lowest rates of foster home placements in the state, relying heavily on group homes. Valley of the Moon Children’s Home has done nothing to provide children with the time and effort to find suitable them foster homes.

Abuse Detection and Permission at Valley of the Moon Children's Home





Foster Change Coalition members were alerted to high physical restraint rates and reports of abuse at Valley of the Moon Children’s Home. We decided to investigate. What we have found was in keeping with Valley of the Moon Children’s Home’s 20 year history of physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, rights violations, and efficient evisceration of the dignity of all children unfortunate enough to cross its threshold.

Foster Change Coalition conducted a comprehensive investigation of Valley of the Moon Children's Home and its practices. In order to protect children in care from retaliation, and cut down on accusations of non-credible witnesses, we decided to limit our limit our investigation to documents created by Valley of the Moon Children’s Home, Sonoma County Human Services Department, Sonoma County Department of Health Services, the Sonoma County Office of Education, and Community Care Licensing staff.

We primarily focused on the program statement and incident reports for physical restraints performed at Valley of the Moon Children’s Home. The program statement is a document prepared by a group home to explain the programs in their home. It must be submitted to Community Care Licensing for approval. Incident reports are completed by the restraining staff after each physical restraint, and the incident reports are sent to Community Care Licensing for oversight.

The approved program statement had over 470 rights violations, including systematic sexual abuse by strip search, unjustified restraints, approved physical abuse, removal of educational protections, and denying food to children who make sexual abuse accusations. Previous incarnations allowed staff to use mechanical locks to lock children in rooms in violation of state criminal and welfare law. The program statement was approved by Community Care Licensing and gave Valley of the Moon Children’s Home authority to abuse children and disregard their rights.

The incident reports proved the staff at Valley of the Moon Children’s Home staff took full advantage of their Community-Care-Licensing-granted authority to abuse children. With shocking candor, staff described sexually, physically, emotionally, educationally and medically abusing children in their care. Extreme rights violations like retaliation for threatening to call the police about abuse, locking children in rooms with windows in public areas of the facility while half naked, demanding a girl strip off her top after being dragged into the facility and locked in a room, denial of access to school of origin, limited visitation with siblings also living in the facility, and rampant use of physical restraint as corporal punishment were described in detail. Supervisors and Program Managers confess in writing to ordering children be physically dragged to a room in which to be locked.

All of the incident reports containing abuse confessions were sent to Community Care Licensing. No action was taken to stop the abuses. It was only when another advocacy group filed complaints that Community Care Licensing stepped in to stop the mechanical locking of children in rooms but continued to permit the use of violent restraints, sexual abuse, physical barrier and holding doors in to keep children from escaping.

We do not have to infer, and we do not have to accuse any staff of abuse. Staff at Valley of the Moon Children’s Home confess to actions which meet the criteria of abuse - like locking children in rooms, restraining them until they pass out, denying them access to the bathroom until they soil themselves, and more - with a forthrightness which is only possible when there is no fear of consequence.

Valley of the Moon Children’s Home is supposed to be where children go to be safe from abuse. Children there simply trade one abuse for another.

Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Child's Voice Gwendoline: I Don't Feel Safe


"She yelled, then cried and requested a different staff stating that she did not feel safe with this staff."

Gwendoline tried to open curtains so she would not be alone with this staff member. She took extreme measures to escape being alone with the staff. She tried to break windows to escape the facility. The staff member grabbed her, dragged her to her bedroom. She told the supervisor that she was afraid of that staff but it was 30 minutes before another staff member came. Until then, she was alone in her bedroom with two male staff members - afraid and agitated.

Gwendoline was right to be afraid. The same staff member has locked children in rooms, and performed unjustified restraints in the past.

Gwendoline was not misbehaving, she was expressing fear. Fear of being alone with staff was one of the most common reasons which precipitated a restraint.

Valley of the Moon Children's Home is dangerous and abusive. Close it.