Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Youth Story: Provoked by Staff



This comment was made on The Press Democrat's website on an article about a complaint made by youth about mistreatment at Valley of the Moon Children's Home.

This comment was taken from a public comment section on The Press Democrat's website but we have made it private because we think people should have the right to decide where they tell their story with their name. 
 
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Tuesday, May 19, 2015

Youth Story: "The Shame, Guilt and Horror of Being Stripped Search After School Still Haunts Me"




This comment was made on The Press Democrat's website on an article about a complaint made by youth about mistreatment at Valley of the Moon Children's Home.

It says, "I was there 33 years ago and was stripped searched everyday coming home from school. I was as bad as being molested, which was why I was placed there. The main hall door was locked at night, though our doors weren't. It seems they haven't changed much in 33 years. Also I was not a child who felt entitled back then. I was a 13 year old girl who was scared out of my mind. I thought I was the bad one, that I had done something wrong. The shame, guilt and horror of being stripped search after school still haunts me, Those of you who thin is is just a fast buck trying to be made have no clue!!"

This comment was taken from a public comment section on The Press Democrat's website. We have made them private because we think people should have the right to decide where they tell their story with their name. 
 
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Valley of the Moon Sued for Civil Rights Violations

Children finally are fighting back against the county. They brought a lawsuit and are banding together in a class action. This from the Press Democrat. 
"Filed earlier this month in U.S. District Court in San Francisco, the suit seeks an end to policies and practices it contends are unconstitutional, as well as punitive and compensatory damages.
So far, the case involves just five plaintiffs, but attorneys are seeking approval to form a class-action suit that could take in hundreds more, they say.
“It’s hard to put a number on it,” attorney Paul H. Masuhara said. “We won’t really know until we get records.”
Named as defendants in the suit are Jerry Dunn, director of Sonoma County’s Human Services Department; the county’s Family Youth and Services director, Nick Honey; and Stacie Kabour, manager of the county-run children’s home.
County Counsel Bruce Goldstein denied any policy at the children’s home of strip-searching or physically restraining children. He said similar accusations have surfaced in the past and were unfounded.
Goldstein said the facility is carefully regulated by the state Community Care Licensing agency, local courts and child welfare advocates. None were made aware of the complaints, he said.
“On its face, many of the allegations seem quite far-fetched,” he said Monday.
The suit is based on the experiences of five girls who are now adults and one male, a minor, who left the home late last year.
One of the women who was at the facility several times from 1995 to 2005 alleges she was subjected to more than 20 strip searches upon returning to the facility from school or family visits.
Another woman who was at the home for three months starting in 2012 said staff members searched her bra, requiring her to pull it away from her body, exposing her breasts.
Similar claims are made by the other two women, who were at the home in 2011. One said she was forced to “shake out” her bra during a search, leaving her feeling “shamed and humiliated.”
The boy, now 17, complained that over an 11-year period ending in December he was locked in his room, placed in restraints and had a cellphone confiscated. The suit also said he was subjected to extreme psychological abuse.
The suit maintains state regulators have investigated and cited the children’s home for a number of practices. In addition, it said incident reports established the use of unjustifiable restraint 610 times in five years, 41 times leading to injury, as well as incidents of sexual abuse and assault.
Goldstein said it may be true that children were injured over the past five years but he said it was unlikely due to restraints or attacks. He said the facility is obligated to report all incidents that could be considered serious to the state.
And he denied any practice that would involve children’s undergarments when they returned to the facility.
“That is not allowed and I don’t believe it happened,” Goldstein said. “It would be inconsistent with policy over at least the past five years.”
You can reach Staff Writer Paul Payne at 568-5312 or paul.payne@pressdemocrat.com. On Twitter @ppayne."

This from the Press Democrat, Sonoma County's primary newspaper. 

Monday, May 18, 2015

Youth Story: "I Have Been Left at Valley Before and it was the Worst Experience of My Life"




This comment was made on a Facebook post about a complaint made by youth about mistreatment at Valley of the Moon Children's Home.

It says, "Oh dude valley is a prison for children with no where else to go. These kids aren't even criminals and they are treated like prisoners. I have been left at Valley before and it was the worst experience of my life. The food is good though."

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Saturday, May 16, 2015

Youth Story: "We Were Strip Searched at the Facility"



 This comment was made on a Facebook post about a complaint made by youth about mistreatment at Valley of the Moon Children's Home.

It says, "Ok they r denying strip searching kids there I can truly say we were strip searched at the facility."

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Thursday, May 14, 2015

Youth Stories: "Totally Dehumanizing." "I Watched Kids Get Tackled and Have Some Basic Rights Violated"



These comments were made on a Facebook post about a complaint made by youth about mistreatment at Valley of the Moon Children's Home. It is different people discussing their experiences and the experiences of their family members.

First comment: "I believe it, I had staff there tell me they were going to send me to an insane asylum because the woman was upset at me. I watched kids get tacked and have some basic rights violated."

Second comment: "I personally the cell phone thing is silly they should be taken from them, communication is restricted, but the reality is there is so many other issues. The staff was so burned out that many of them took their aggression on the kids. I get it I worked in group homes but as a kid surviving abuse and then having that emotional abuse done by the people meant to protect you was horrifying. I remember it like yesterday my roomate being woken up in the middle of the night strapped to a bed and taken to the mental hospital. A snearing staff woman telling me I was next if I didnt watch my step. I was a good kid, never been in trouble, graduated with my BA and these were some of the worst days of my life. Totally dehumanizing.

Third comment: "My baby girl whom came to live with us April 22, 2011 her adoption was finalized on July 2, 2013. They made it obvious they hate her."

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Youth Story: "Abuse Has Been Going on There for Many Years"





This comment was made on a Facebook post about a complaint made by youth about mistreatment at Valley of the Moon Children's Home.

It says, "Not surprised. Abuse has been going on there for many years, treating already traumatized children as if they were criminals, when they are all, in fact, victims. Sad."

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Wednesday, May 13, 2015

Youth Story: "I was Handcuffed to a Desk for 6 Hours"





This comment was made on a Facebook post about a complaint made by youth about mistreatment at Valley of the Moon Children's Home.

It says, "Portia its good you didnt experience the bad of valley. I worked in a group home with recent kids from valley and many including myself experienced some really bad situations from the staff. I dont know the commenter is above or what they stand for... but I am glad there is a light being shined on the situation. If they are innocent the court will find that. I was handcuffed to a desk for 6 hours when I was there for being upset over my sibling being taken from me. I didn't harm staff or myself. I simply did not comply when I was told to do some activity I sat in the common room. Instead of taking the time to help me though feelings, they got frustrated and dragged me to the front office and was handcuffed to the desk where I cried until I passed out from sadness and exhausten. I am not part of this class action, and this is the first of it I am hearing. Some staff members though are completely burned out and kids deserve better then that. I also had staff who really helped me there. The legal system will work its way to the truth either way. ."

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Tuesday, May 12, 2015

Youth Story: "I Was There On and Off and Was Definitely Mistreated"



This comment was made on a Facebook post about a complaint made by youth about mistreatment at Valley of the Moon Children's Home.

It says, "I was there on and off and was definitely mistreated. Isolated and outcast from other teens. I was forced to be completely alone. I was also tackled by a male staff member and was held on the ground for 10+ minutes. Not fun. I hate this place. however, a handful of staff was supportive and caring, whereas the others were creepy, rude, antagonizing and just plain fucking idiots. I honestly wish social workers and parents could realize how shitty these kids are being treated here. No child should ever have to go through this kind of hell."

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Sunday, May 10, 2015

Youth Story: Staff Watching Mass Showers, Restraining Pregnant Child for Sneaking Food



This comment was made on a facebook post about a complaint made by youth about mistreatment at Valley of the Moon Children's Home.

It says, "This place sucks. My siblings and I were in and out of this place for years. Sure it was "better" then being with an abusive mother, but it also wasn't a safe place. When I got there I was separated from my sister and brother and placed a group of other kids my age, I had to show with these kids while staff watched, having to share clothes, wear shows that were way to small for me because they couldn't buy any that fit me. When kids picked on me, my sisters and brothers would come to my rescue but they would get in trouble, and lose points. The kids picking on me would get off with a warning. Not only was in a strange place, I was scared and all I wanted was to be with my siblings, but if you were in the age group you couldn't sit with them or do the same activities. One night, during a cooking activity this girl pushed m and locked the door, when a staff finally heard me yelling, I was told to sit down for being disruptive. I saw a male staff pin down a pregnant teen for sneaking food from the kitchen. (Sure, she shouldn't have been sneaking food but to pin down a pregnant person is extremely uncalled for and abusive). The good thing that came from this place was, my siblings and I had a break from an abusive home, and the best thing was when I met my parents and finally got to go home with them."

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Saturday, May 9, 2015

Youth Story: "When I Was There in 2004 They Would Strip Search Me."


This comment was made on a facebook post about a complaint made by youth about mistreatment at Valley of the Moon Children's Home.

It says, "Yes they do have strip searches when I was there in 2004 they would strip search me :( which at the time I thought was not part of their protocal since they would strip search only some and not all."

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Friday, May 8, 2015

Youth Story: "I Have Seen it Plenty Times Where Kids Get Thrown to the Ground"




This comment was made on a Facebook post about a complaint made by youth about mistreatment at Valley of the Moon Children's Home.

It says, "I have been there and been threw the foster care system and some of those staff are amazing & some are ruthless and very disrespectful. I have seen it plenty times where kids get thrown to the ground."

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Thursday, May 7, 2015

"It was very obvious that some staff hated her." A Parent Speaks on Valley of the Moon Children's Home



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Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Strip Search Form

Foster youth were strip searched on mass at Valley of the Moon Children's Home. This is the form which staff used to document their strip search forms. It is form Meds 206. It requires staff to view the child fully naked and check their genitals.